Funeral for the Living CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

Funeral for the Living

This kiss started three days ago when Ayo and I shared a handshake. Something happened when we touched skins and it lingered on after we finished greeting. Just like that, we were magnets, finding each other’s gaze from across the room and bumping into ourselves in a space that was small enough for a 3-year-old […]

A summer fling CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

A Summer Fling

I saw her at the supermarket. She was standing with a group of people dancing and acting silly without caring who was looking. She was so light-skinned, hard to miss. I was amazed. I was looking at the most tomboyish person I’d ever seen in Lagos, in Nigeria, in my life! She had black locks, […]

Two Loves CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

Two Loves Don’t Make a Right

In hindsight, he wasn’t handsome, eloquent, or generous, and neither was he ugly, inarticulate, or stingy. He was, to put it simply, the first man to make me look in the mirror and acknowledge who I am. Except for his six-foot-two-inch frame, I ordinarily would never have looked twice at him was I to walk […]

A Lost Love CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

A Lost Love

In the hallways of high school, Our hearts bonded like two irons in the hands of a blacksmith, Your seat beside mine, I could feel the heat of your love oozing out of you to me, You need not say it but I knew you would cross limits for me, You were always ready to […]

Borders of Friendship CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

Borders of Friendship

“Ugly as fuck…” That was the last message he saw before the entire chat disappeared and he had the chance to respond or at least fake a mutual backlash to pretend he wasn’t as hot as he thought he was. But then it dawned on him; he hadn’t even seen his face. “Fuck! He has […]

All the gazes in the classroom CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

All the Gazes in the Classroom

The rains had just ended, and Harmattan was about to start. We had lost some boys to other institutions, and new subjects terrified others, but despite the chaos of change and uncertainty of grades to come, I couldn’t let go of the thrill and excitement that reigned with the word “Senior”. I had just gotten […]

SaferNudes Call for interest

Safer Nudes Nigeria is calling on queer individuals in Lagos and Abujawho are interested in participating in a one-day meeting to discuss in real time and find solutions to: Safer ways of meeting dates online and offline Sending nudes safely Dealing with revenge porn, blackmail, and extortion Avoiding Kito and other stories that touch Interested […]

Hidden conversations CategoriesFirst Love Our Stories

Hidden Conversations

Sheri and Faith have had a long day; they cannot wait to lay in each other’s arms. It’s difficult; pretending to the world, meanwhile, you can’t wait till you get home, to breathe, to release yourself from the burden of the shadow you are wearing. Sheri interns in a fashion school. Her dream is to […]

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This Message Was Deleted

It’s your birthday and for some reason, I decided to break the silence and send you a happy birthday message. I am so sure you will ignore it. I am lazing around the house when my phone vibrates. It’s a message from you. “I still remember how you smell, your scent.” I read those words […]